Hot Gist: Don’t Forget Yourself While Building A Man – Angela Okorie To Ladies

The actress and mum of one gave the advice in a post she shared on her Instagram page on Friday morning. Read below

I don’t like it when people say 
You have to build a man from ground 
to the top, 
Building a man is not really the problem but forgetting ur self while building him is the problem, you must always understand that u also have some growth to do too

Oh yes u can Support him 
You can Encourage him
But don’t you ever forget that u are the first priority 
You have a lot of work to do on ur self
Focusing on him than your self is so wrong
Now Focus on the woman u planned to become,
If you continue to focus on him alone 
You will be broken and might regret it later
Cos u we’re busy building some1 else 
For Everyone story that was 
A success 
I can show you a thousand more 
Where there was a damage ,hurt,
And disappointment .

Some men will ask their wives not to work 
That he will provide everything 
When things start getting bad
He will not understand it’s a phase 
That will pass
He will turn around and say the woman is a witch that made him broke
forgetting he practically asked her not to work, no supporting hand 
Blaming her for being broke 
Women don’t ever agree to that 
Women are help mate we know,
But that Doesn’t mean she should 
kill ur self,
Help him grow but don’t forget u are the first priority.
U should be able to do some things on ur own too without u calling your sweetheart all the time for help.
You can build an empire together 
If u both are growing 
I don’t know who needs to hear this 
Cheers  to the weekend